Women making more $

It is not just an occasional abnormality for a woman to make more than her spouse/partner these days. For many years before we got married Salvacion made more money than I did. She started working sooner and she got her degree. Even though she stays home now, she has the potential to make more money than me in a professional setting. It never really bothered me, other than the fact that for many years I made less than everyone I had been in school with. Of course that could just be a function of the fact that I left school without completing my degree.

So, even though women (as a whole) want equality, why do they complain about men who make less than they do? I read an article recounting the conversation of several women regarding the subject of dating men that make less money and the comments are quite astounding. I thought we were looking for equality here? As I’ve said in the past, don’t believe the lies – the women’s movement is not about equality.

“Dating a man without money is really tough because you end up paying for everything and that wears on you after awhile.” Really? Welcome to a man’s world baby. Why should it matter who pays for what in the relationship? I thought we were working towards equality here?

“It’s the romance and chivalry that women want—not the free meal.” Well, whether that’s true or not, I’m not about to deny I love getting a free meal. If it comes with a side of romance, well, that just means I don’t need to order dessert. But since you brought it up, why is a man expected to pick up the tab in this equality-driven age?

“Guys should also pay for dates early on. Career women are happy to pick up the tab when dating someone seriously, but in the early stages of dating, the guy should get the tab. It sets the stage for building a stronger relationship.” Oh, that’s right because we all know that when men pay for things it is the solid foundation on which all great relationships are built.

“It’s not that I couldn’t fall in love with someone who made less money than I do, but it would be difficult. I want to settle down with someone who can take care of me and support a family.” I thought women didn’t need men to take care of them in this day and age. Isn’t that a sexist thought now? I guess that falls in line with the whole “men should pay for dates” methodology. Learn them early that their money is your money – now I get it.

On the flip side though, “For a woman who’s on a limited budget and feels strapped, it’s scary to take on someone who’s making significantly less money.” Wow, you just described the majority of young men in America. Before you get your panties in a bunch, what I mean is that most young men are financially “strapped” yet still expected to pay for dates.

Welcome to equality ladies. It is sometimes ugly, but it’s what you said you wanted. If women are going to expect men to pay for dates then women should expect to make less money than men. It’s only fair that the men should make more if the women are always getting the free meal ticket. If women want equality then they better stop complaining and start ponying up the dough. Actually that's the problem – women are split on what they want.